Coping with Chronic Illness and Rare Disease

 Are you managing a chronic illness or rare disease?
You are not alone.

In fact, an astounding 45% of all Americans are living with one or more chronic health care conditions in the United States, mostly invisible to others.

Living with the uncertainty of health flares and the daily stressors of medical routines and case management can impact with daily routines and relationships. Many patients have experienced medical trauma, neglect, and gaslighting. Because many chronic health care conditions are invisible or not identifiable to others, you may not get the support you need. This can contribute to feelings of loneliness and isolation.

  • Developmental Life Transitions

  • Physical and Emotional Isolation

  • Missed and Decreased Recreational Time

  • Relationship Stressors and Dating

  • Support Group Changes

  • Medical care managment and financial burdens

  • Acute, Chronic, Complex, and Medical Trauma

    You don’t have a choice in your diagnosis, but you do have a choice in how you manage it. I am here to help make the journey easier. The emotional impact of living with a chronic illness can be isolating, but it does not have to be. Peer reviewed studies have shown that managing your mental health can be just as important as managing your physical health.

I live it and get it. I have over 17 years of experience treating patients, care partners, siblings, and loved ones who live with or support those living with chronic illness. I not only bring my professional, but personal experience to the therapeutic alliance. I live with over 30 chronic health care conditions, so my familiarity is also personal, so, “I get it.”

Individual, Family, Couples, and Group Therapy: Studies have shown the greatest indicator of improved mental and physical health are postive social connections. Living with the emotional burden stress of chronic illness can impact interpersonal relationships. Therapy can improve your insight, coping strategies, and communication skills to improve your relationships with loved ones, giving you the right kind of support. Peer reviewed studies have shown that living with a chronic health care condition can lead to mental health conditions such as anxiety, depression, medical trauma, and brain and neurogical condtions such as OCD and ADHD. I can address the underlying clinical mental health conditions. When mental health is more manageble, it provides a greater level of flexibility to navigate the incredibly complicated medical world of chronic illness management.

Consultation and Professional Resources for Professionals: I offer consultation services to psychiatrists, therapists, and other professionals who may not be aware of the intricacies and intersectiion of chronic illness and mental health. I conducted over 40 lectures, in addition to podcasts articles, professional writing and research contributions in the chronic illness and rare disease space for over 17 years. Understanding medical trauma and mental health is vital to working with individuals with chronic health care conditions and their loved ones. Please free to contact me for my CV for further information. and requests for collaboration.

Chronic Illness Links & Resources

Resources for Rare Disease and Chronic Disease Patients

·      National Organization of Rare Diseases (NORD) https://rarediseases.org/

·      Genetic and Rare Diseases (GARD) Information Center https://rarediseases.info.nih.gov/

·      World Health Organization (WHO) https://www.who.int/

·      PanAmerican Health Organization (PAHO) https://www.paho.org/en

·      National Health Council https://nationalhealthcouncil.org/

·      Patient Advocate Foundation (PAF) https://www.patientadvocate.org/

·      Patients Rising https://patientsrising.org/

·      Patient Services, Inc. https://www.patientservicesinc.org/

Allergies/Asthma/Bronchiectasis/Chronic Sinusitis/Eczema

·      General/Multiple Illnesses: 

o   American Academy of Asthma, Allergy, and Immunology https://www.aaaai.org/

o   Asthma and Allergy Foundation of America https://www.aafa.org/

o   Allergy & Asthma Network https://allergyasthmanetwork.org/

o   National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases (NIAID) https://www.niaid.nih.gov/

o   American College of Asthma, Allergy, and Immunology (ACAAI) https://acaai.org/

·      Allergy

o   World Allergy Association https://www.worldallergy.org/

o   Food Allergy Research & Education (FARE) https://www.foodallergy.org/

·      Asthma

o    American Lung Association https://www.lung.org/

o   American Thoracic Society (ATS) https://www.thoracic.org/

o   Asthma Society of Canada https://asthma.ca/

·      Eczema and Topical Dermatitis

o   National Eczema Association https://nationaleczema.org/

o   Altogether Eczema https://www.altogethereczema.org/

o   International Alliance of Dermatology Patient Organizations https://globalskin.org/

Alopecia

·      National Alopecia Areata Foundation (NAAF) https://www.naaf.org/

·      American Hair Loss Association (AHLA) https://www.americanhairloss.org/

Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis/ALS (a.k.a. Lou Gehrig’s Disease)

·      The ALS Association https://www.als.org/

·      Project ALS https://projectals.org/

·      Les Turner ALS Foundation https://lesturnerals.org/

·      A Life Story (ALS) Foundation https://alifestoryfoundation.org/

·      ALS Society of Canada https://www.als.ca/

·      Hope Loves Company https://www.hopelovescompany.org/

Autoimmune Illnesses and Connective Tissue Disorders

·      General/Multiple Illnesses:

o   American Autoimmune & Related Diseases Association (AARDA) https://www.aarda.org/

o   Arthritis National Research Foundation (ANRF) https://curearthritis.org

o   Arthritis Foundation www.arthritis.org

·      Lupus:

o   Lupus Foundation of America https://www.lupus.org/

o   Lupus Research Alliance https://www.lupusresearch.org/

o   Lupus Canada https://lupuscanada.org/

·      Sjogren’s Syndrome:

o   Sjogren’s Foundation https://www.sjogrens.org/

·      Rheumatoid Arthritis 

o   Rheumatoid Arthritis Foundation https://www.helpfightra.org/

o   Rheumatoid Arthritis Support Network https://www.rheumatoidarthritis.org/

o   Arthritis Foundation https://www.arthritis.org

·      Scleroderma:

o   Scleroderma Foundation https://www.scleroderma.org

o   International Scleroderma Network https://www.sclero.org/

o   Scleroderma Research Foundation https://srfcure.org/

 

Back Pain: Degenerative Disk Disease/Spondylosis

·      Degenerative Disc Disease

o   National Spine Health Foundation https://spinehealth.org/

o   International Society for the Advancement of Spine Surgery: The Innovation Society https://www.isass.org/

o   Daily Strength.Org Support Group https://www.dailystrength.org/group/degenerative-disc-disease

·      Ankylosing Spondylitis

o   Spondylitis Association of America https://spondylitis.org/

o   Arthritis Foundation https://www.arthritis.org

 

Blood Disorders

·      General/Multiple Illnesses

o   World Federation of Hemophilia https://www.wfh.org/en/home

·      Anemia

o   AA/MDS International Foundation (Aplastic Anemia/Myelodysplastic Syndromes) https://www.aamds.org/ 

o   American Sickle Cell Anemia Association (ASCAA) http://www.ascaa.org/

o   Iron Disorders Institute https://irondisorders.org/

·      ITP

o   Platelet Disorder Support Association (PDSA) https://www.pdsa.org/

o   ITP International Alliance https://www.globalitp.org/

o   The ITP Support Association (UK) https://www.itpsupport.org.uk/index.php/en/

Chronic Pain

·      U.S. Pain Foundation https://uspainfoundation.org/

·      International Myopain Society (IMS) https://www.myopain.org/

·      National Fibromyalgia & Chronic Pain Association (NFMCPA) https://fibroandpain.org/

COVID-19 Long Haulers

·      Washington State Hospital Association Post-COVID Recovery Resources https://www.wsha.org/post-covid-recovery-resources/

Cystic Fibrosis

·      Cystic Fibrosis Foundation https://www.cff.org/

·      Take A Breather Foundation https://www.takeabreatherfromcf.org/

·      Cystic Fibrosis Canada https://www.cysticfibrosis.ca/

·      Emily’s Entourage https://www.emilysentourage.org/

Dysautonomia

·      Dysautonomia Support Network https://www.dysautonomiasupport.org/

·      Dysautonomia International http://www.dysautonomiainternational.org/

·      The Dysautonomia Project https://thedysautonomiaproject.org/

Ehlers Danlos Syndrome (EDS)

·      The Ehlers Danlos Society https://www.ehlers-danlos.com/

·      EDS Today http://edstoday.org/

 

Endocrine and Metabolic Conditions

·      General/Multiple Illnesses:

o   Pituitary Network Association https://pituitary.org/

o   Hormone Health Network Endocrine Society https://www.hormone.org/

o   National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases (NIDDK) https://www.niddk.nih.gov/

·      Diabetes:

o   American Diabetes Association https://www.diabetes.org/ 

o   Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation (JDRF) https://www.jdrf.org/

·      Hashimoto’s: 

o   American Thyroid Association https://www.thyroid.org/

o   Hormone Health Network https://www.hormone.org/

·      Grave’s Disease: 

o   American Thyroid Association https://www.thyroid.org/

o   Hormone Health Network https://www.hormone.org/

·      Hypoparathyroidism:

o   Hypoparathyroidism Association, Inc. https://hypopara.org/

o   Hormone Health Network https://www.hormone.org/

·      Addison’s Disease and Adrenal Insufficiency:

o   National Adrenal Diseases Foundation https://www.nadf.us/

·      Cushing’s Disease:

o   Cushing Support and Research Foundation, Inc. (CSRF) https://csrf.net/

 

Fibrodysplasia Ossificans Progressiva (FOP)

·      International FOP Association (IFOPA) https://www.ifopa.org/

Fibromyalgia

·      National Fibromyalgia Association (NFA) https://fmaware.net/

·      American Fibromyalgia Syndrome Association, Inc. (AFSA) http://www.afsafund.org/

·      National Fibromyalgia & Chronic Pain Association (NFMCPA) https://fibroandpain.org/

·      International Myopain Society (IMS) https://www.myopain.org/

·      Fibromyalgia Coalition International https://www.fibrocoalition.org/

·      PANDORA Org (Patient Alliance Neuroendocrineimmune Disorders Organization for Research & Advocacy) https://pandoraorg.net/

·      European Network of Fibromyalgia Associations (ENFA) https://www.enfa-europe.eu/

·      Fibromyalgia Association UK (FMA UK) http://www.fmauk.org/

·      Daily Strength.Org Online Support Group https://www.dailystrength.org/group/fibromyalgia

 

Gastrointestinal Diseases

·      General/Multiple GI Diseases:

o   International Foundation for Functional Gastrointestinal Disorders (IFFGD) https://iffgd.org/

o   Digestive Disease National Coalition (DDNC) http://www.ddnc.org/

o   American Gastroenterological Association https://gastro.org/

o   National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases (NIDDK) https://www.niddk.nih.gov/

·      Inflammatory Bowel Disease (IBD)/Crohn’s & Ulcerative Colitis: 

o   Crohn’s & Colitis Foundation https://www.crohnscolitisfoundation.org

o   IBD Support Foundation (IBDSF) http://ibdsf.org/

o   The Great Bowel Movement https://thegreatbowelmovement.org/

o   Girls With Guts (GWG) https://www.girlswithguts.org/

·      Gastroparesis: 

o   Association of Gastrointestinal Motility Disorders, Inc. (AGMD) https://agmdhope.org/

o   Gastroparesis Patient Association for Cures and Treatments (G-PACT) https://g-pact.org

·      Celiac Disease:

o   National Celiac Association (NCA) https://nationalceliac.org/

o   Celiac Disease Foundation https://celiac.org/

o   Canadian Celiac Association (CCA) https://www.celiac.ca/

o   Beyond Celiac https://www.beyondceliac.org/

o   National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases (NIDDK) https://www.niddk.nih.gov/

·      Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS):

o   The IBS Network https://www.theibsnetwork.org/

o   IBS Patient Support Group https://www.ibspatient.org/

o   National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases (NIDDK) https://www.niddk.nih.gov/

·      Small Intestine Bacterial Overgrowth (SIBO):

o   SIBO Center (info page) https://sibocenter.com/2015/03/useful-websites-resources/

 

Heart Disease/Stroke

·      Heart Disease

o   American Heart Association (AHA) https://www.heart.org/

o   World Heart Federation https://www.world-heart-federation.org/

o   The Heart Foundation https://theheartfoundation.org/

o   Women Heart https://www.womenheart.org/

o   Children’s Heart Link https://childrensheartlink.org/

·      Stroke

o   American Stroke Association https://www.stroke.org/

o   Stroke Recovery Foundation, Inc. https://strokerecoveryfoundation.org/

o   Stroke Association (UK) https://www.stroke.org.uk/

 

Kidney & Urinary Conditions

·      General/Multiple Illnesses

o   Urology Care Foundation https://www.urologyhealth.org/

o   American Association of Kidney Patients (AAKP) https://aakp.org/

o   Renal Support Network https://www.rsnhope.org/

o   National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases (NIDDK) https://www.niddk.nih.gov/

o   American Kidney Fund https://www.kidneyfund.org/

·      Polycystic Kidney Disease (PKD)

o   PKD Foundation https://pkdcure.org/

o   PKD International (Global Alliance for Polycystic Kidney Disease) https://pkdinternational.org/

o   American Association of Kidney Patients (AAKP) https://aakp.org/

o   Renal Support Network https://www.rsnhope.org/

o   American Kidney Fund https://www.kidneyfund.org/

 

Lung and Pulmonary Illnesses

·      American Thoracic Society https://www.thoracic.org/

·      European Respiratory Society https://www.ersnet.org/

·      British Lung Foundation https://www.blf.org.uk/

 

Lyme Disease

·      Lyme Disease Association, Inc. https://lymediseaseassociation.org/

·      Lyme Disease.Org https://www.lymedisease.org/

·      Lyme Disease Foundation https://lyme.org/

·      American Lyme Disease Foundation, Inc. (ALDF) https://www.aldf.com/

·      Liv Lyme Foundation https://livlymefoundation.org/

·      Lyme Connection https://lymeconnection.org/

·      Global Lyme Alliance https://globallymealliance.org/

·      International Lyme and Associated Diseases Society (ILADS) https://www.ilads.org/

 

Mast Cell & Mastocytosis

·      The Mastocytosis Society, Inc. (The Mast Cell Disease Society, Inc.) https://tmsforacure.org/

·      Mast Cell Hope https://www.mastcellhope.org/

·      Super T’s Mast Cell Foundation https://supertmastcell.org/

Migraines and Cluster Headaches

·      American Migraine Foundation https://americanmigrainefoundation.org/

·      National Headache Foundation https://headaches.org/

·      International Headache Society https://ihs-headache.org/en/

·      Association of Migraine Disorders (AMD) https://www.migrainedisorders.org/

·      Coalition for Headache and Migraine Patients (CHAMP) https://headachemigraine.org/

·      Chronic Migraine Awareness, Inc. https://chronicmigraineawareness.com/

·      Danielle Byron Henry Migraine Foundation https://daniellefoundation.org/

·      Migraine.com https://migraine.com/

·      Migraine World Summit https://migraineworldsummit.com/

·      Migraine Disease.org  https://migrainedisease.org/

·      Clusterbusters https://clusterbusters.org/

·      Cluster Headache Support Group (HSG) https://chsg.org/

·      Miles for Migraine https://www.milesformigraine.org/

 

Multiple Sclerosis (MS)

·      National Multiple Sclerosis Society https://www.nationalmssociety.org/

·      Multiple Sclerosis Association of America (MSAA) https://mymsaa.org/

·      Multiple Sclerosis International Federation https://www.msif.org/

·      Accelerated Cure Project https://www.acceleratedcure.org/

·      Multiple Sclerosis News Today https://multiplesclerosisnewstoday.com/

 

Muscular Dystrophy

·      Muscular Dystrophy Association (MDA) https://www.mda.org/

·      Muscular Dystrophy Canada https://muscle.ca/

 

Myalgic Encephalomyelitis/Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (ME/CFS)

·      American Myalgic Encephalomyelitis and Chronic Fatigue Syndrome Society https://ammes.org/

·      International Association for Chronic Fatigue Syndrome/Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (IACFS/ME) https://www.iacfsme.org/

·      PANDORA Org (Patient Alliance Neuroendocrineimmune Disorders Organization for Research & Advocacy) https://pandoraorg.net/

Myasthenia Gravis

·      Myasthenia Foundation of America, Inc. https://myasthenia.org/

·      Myasthenia Gravis Association (MGA) http://www.mgakc.org/

·      Muscular Dystrophy Association (MDA) https://www.mda.org/disease/myasthenia-gravis

 

Parkinson’s Disease

·      American Parkinson Disease Association (APDA) https://www.apdaparkinson.org/

·      The Michael J. Fox Foundation https://www.michaeljfox.org/

 

Phenylketonuria (PKU):

·      Children’s PKU Network http://www.pkunetwork.org

·      National PKU Alliance https://www.npkua.org/

·      National PKU News https://pkunews.org/

 

Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS)

·      PCOS Awareness Association https://www.pcosaa.org/

·      PCOS Challenge: The National Polycystic Ovary Syndrome Association https://www.pcoschallenge.org/

·      National Women’s Health Network https://nwhn.org/polycystic-ovary-syndrome-pcos/

·      American Society for Reproductive Medicine https://www.asrm.org/topics/topics-index/polycystic-ovary-syndrome-pcos/

·      Hormone Health Network https://www.hormone.org/

 

Primary Immunodeficiency (PI):

·      Immune Deficiency Foundation (IDF)  https://primaryimmune.org/

·      Jeffrey Modell Foundation (JMF) http://www.info4pi.org/

·      International Patient Organization for Primary Immunodeficiencies (IPOPI) https://ipopi.org/

·      IG Living https://www.igliving.com/

·      Immune Competence https://www.immunecompetence.org/

·      European Society for Immunodeficiencies (ESID) https://esid.org/#

 

Psoriasis

·      National Psoriasis Foundation https://www.psoriasis.org/

 

Pulmonary Hypertension

·      Pulmonary Hypertension Association (PHA) https://phassociation.org/

·      Pulmonary Vascular Research Institute (PVRI)  https://pvrinstitute.org/en/

 

Sleep Disorders

·      American Thoracic Society https://www.thoracic.org/

·      American Sleep Apnea Association https://www.sleepapnea.org/

 

Vascular Disease/Peripheral Artery Disease (PAD)

·      The Vascular Disease Foundation/Vascular Cures https://vascularcures.org/

·      American Heart Association https://www.heart.org/